“In the tutor language: I forgot when Superman’s parents, let the children be independent”
Modern parents very hard on, in the face of Chinese information rapidly changing new era, must often be consumer, fitting for both activities.
Is the child’s spiritual teacher, wants to become a child’s bodyguard; workplace hard during the day, night and affectionate new parents, like Superman, always on.
In terms of language development, we would like to see appear superhuman parent until the child is about a year and a half or so, when a child is trying to communicate using simple words or words to express, being new parents will occasionally forget Superman’s parents, the Almighty status. Children from birth, learned to communicate with the outside world, projection.
Children under 4 months ago, many parents are achieved through baby’s crying or expressions to determine what children want to express, so it’s almost like Superman’s parents, standing, skill in accurately guessing skill. Gradually of children to has eight months big, children began learning tries to issued many different of sound, in such issued sound of process in the, Superman parents must to more encourages children, and efforts of will children by issued of sound meaning of, that is children in a accidentally of situational in the on with dad issued/Bubu/sound, now Dad on should encourages of said/dad, you in called I dad, good Rod/; but MOM also without to jealous, if is same of situational MOM appeared has, children issued/Bubu/
Voice, mother can encourage children to speak/to hold you hug/give kids a big hug.
Such speculation activities children around the age of one, you’ll wish all parents slowly forget one call or, kids just want a face or eyes, outstretched hands, you can get what he/she wants—such a mode of communication should be changed.
Superman’s parents could start from a simple event; when a child around the age used to finger him for candy, parents do not have to immediately meet the child’s wishes, you can try to say “sugar, sugar, sugar, sugar”, age, and then a little time, sentence patterns can be changed to “candy candy”.
When a child to the age of two years or more, we are delighted to see their parents do not have to guess the child, 100% or no longer connected with the kids (child parents knew before opening) because they have to try to use their own language to express their needs. Parents can such do: Dang children habits with finger candy tank said “candy” of when, parents can pretending to not knows or listening wrong has, took out juice or other items, let children do select and plus oral “you to candy? also is you to milk”, so model answers “I to candy, not juice”, let children more some opportunities to learning using sentence made communication expression, while also let children more some opportunities learning independence—such, Superman parents were finally can temporarily resting about, With the children face the next stage of growth. (Translated by Bing)
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