Tips for Parents.

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港大發放小冊子
「輔導」新生家長

現今社會,直升機家長實在太多,部分大學生甚至由家長陪伴開學。港大也要炮製一份《給家長的話》,「輔導」一下家長如何學習「放手」。

這份《給家長的話》(Tips for Parents)一開始便提到,「大學既鼓勵學生過獨立自主的生活,也希望他們能為自己的決定作出承擔,當您面對子女升讀大學後,留在家的時間比從前少,就連溝通的時間也好像不足夠時,您也許會感到悲喜交集」。

指引直言,「這個時候,亦是您『放手』、接受和適應轉變,以及重新思考您在子女生命中的位置的良機」。指引建議父母在尊重子女私人空間下,「適量」運用手機短訊等保持聯絡,體諒他們未必每次或即時回覆,並要多做一個聆聽者。

對於港大要出這份《給家長的話》,有曾在港大任職助教的人幽默地稱,「期待(未來)大學為家長搞迎新營的一天」。

她透露,「有學生同我講,話考唔到好grade會比阿媽鬧,走堂阿媽又會鬧。我心想,我讀大學時我阿媽邊鬼理我咁多。好彩年半助教生涯未遇過家長投訴,但睇怕好快會出現咁嘅一幕:家長大鬧助教辦公室:做咩剩係比個B我個仔!」
HKU and pamphlets “counselling” newborn parents nowadays, too many helicopter parents, college students and even school accompanied by their parents.

HKU has concocted one of the parents, that “counseling” about how parents learn “let it go”.

This ‘ to the parents ‘ (Tips for Parents) refers to a start, “the University encourages students to live a life of independence, hoping that they can decide their own commitment, when you face when their children admitted to the University, at home in less time than before, and even the communication time doesn’t seem to have enough, you may feel sad all at once.” Guidelines with respect, “at this time, are you” let go “, to accept and adapt to change, and rethink your position in the lives of children an opportunity.”

Recommended guidelines for children of parents in respect of private space, the “regular” keep in touch using mobile phone text messages and problems may not be every time or real time reply, and do more of a listener.

For providing this to the parents in Hong Kong, someone who had served in the Hong Kong Ta humorously said, “looking forward to (future) University orientation camp for the parents day”. She said that “students told me that test well to a good grade than Grandma, walk of Fame grandmother would make. I thought to myself, when I went to college my grandma’s Ghost talking to me so much. Lucky half years an Assistant Professor is not met complaints from parents but sideline so see on scene quickly occur: parent Assistant Office: BAA than a b, and I left! 」 (Translated by Bing)

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