Students tripping over chairs, parents like this.

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最衰阿邊個邊個……
屈穎妍
傳媒工作者早陣子現代書院學生在新高中中文科集體出貓被取消分數之後,有議員政客找來涉事學生開記者招待會,蒙着臉聲討老師,說出貓是教師教唆,責任不全在學生身上,更聲言教局不應取消全科分數,這樣對他們不公平云云。上星期明報「教得樂」八爪魚家長專欄作者,就此次事件用了「最衰阿邊個邊個……」來諷刺這種推卸責任的風氣。

說的非常精警,這簡直是一種新的社會心態,從此任何事件,都可以用「最衰阿邊個邊個……」來為自己的失言失行失德作開脫。學生出貓,最衰個老師啦,是他教我們這樣做!教師當街爆粗,最衰班差人啦,惹我發火!社會躁動,最衰個政府啦,讓我們一起癱瘓它!

小時候,孩子被椅子絆倒,父母總喜歡用這一套:在孩子面前拍打着椅子大罵「衰櫈、曳櫈,最衰係你,絆倒我的寶貝孩子,打死你、打死你……」

難怪長大了,遇事,大家已不習慣先自省,而是先問責,環顧四周,找最衰是阿邊個邊個!

記得有一回給學生評分,我給一個孩子評了C-,他來電郵投訴質問,也向校方投訴我評分不公。有老師來為他說項,原來這孩子差0.1分就拿到獎學金了,好心同事問我能不能查閱一下功課,給回他一分半分,讓他達標。

我說,當日這孩子在走堂的時候、在學習態度散漫的時候,有沒有想過今日這後果?教訓,說是沒用的,要經歷過才記得牢,我就是要用這令他深深不忿的0.1 分,叫他畢生記住一失足成千古恨的道理。由得他去恨我去投訴我吧,幾十年後,也許他會回來謝我也說不定。

可惜,今日社會只流行找問責者,政客給出貓孩子作了一個驚人教育,就是讓他們理直氣壯地推卸責任。於是,以後誰犯錯,只要找到一個更堂皇的藉口更大的孭鑊者,罪就不在我了。

原文轉載自《明報》 2013年8月12日

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The bad side … …Qu Yingyan journalists earlier on modern college students in the new Chinese collective cats was canceled after scores of high schools, a member of politicians to question the students hold a press conference, denounce teachers, blindfolded face, say teachers ‘ cats are abetting, responsibility is not completely on the students, also argued that teaching should not cancel the General score, so unfair to them and so on.Last week, the Ming Pao Daily News “teach” Octopus columnist for parents, the incident with “the bad side side……” culture of irony for shirking responsibility. Very fine police said, this is a new social mindset, any event, you can use “the bad side side……” to serve their own misconduct justified the gaffes of losing line. Students up the cat, most bad teacher, he taught us to do! Teachers approached Detroit, most failure guy class, making me angry!

Social restlessness, bad government, paralysed it with us!

As a child, child is tripping over chairs, parents like this: flapping chairs in front of him yelling “bad Deng, and drag Deng, the failure of you, tripped me, baby, baby, shoot you, shoot you……”

No wonder grew up, he is, people not used to introspection, but accountability first, look around, find the failure is a c side edge! I remember one scoring back to the students, I comment on C-for a child, he calls mail complaint questioning, also complained to the school I unfair scoring.

Teacher to intercede for him, that this poor kid 0.1 scholarship, kind-hearted colleague asked if I could check their homework, give him a minute and a half, he targets. To me, this kid in the Hall on the day when, in learning when loose, ever think that today this consequence? The lesson, says won’t work, tried to go through it remembered in prison, I just made this to his deeply discontented 0.1 points, he dedicated his life to remember old Sin makes new shame sense.

By me he hates me to complaints, several decades later, maybe he’ll come back and thank me, maybe. Unfortunately, today only popular accountability, politicians give up the cat children made an amazing education, is to let them justly to shirk its responsibility.

So, who make mistakes in the future, if we can find a more decent excuse me blame, crime was not on my. Original text taken from the Ming Pao on August 12, 2013: singpao view more: http://buff.ly/14PxfMfyou in our community, “the bad side side……” culture of shirking responsibilities what?

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